Lux Velvet

Lux Velvet is Ottawa’s most exciting party collective for the non-monogamous and the curious. We create unforgettable experiences for those who identify as polyamorous, in open relationships, swingers, or simply exploring. Our events are designed for open-minded, sex-positive people who want to connect, dance, and indulge in something a little more adventurous.

We host a mix of public and private events, but it’s our members-only parties where the real magic happens—exclusive, adult-themed gatherings in chic hotels, stylish private clubs, and one-of-a-kind venues across the city. These experiences are intimate, upscale, and built around respectful, vibrant community energy. Access is invite-only, and each guest is personally vetted to ensure every event feels safe, sexy, and genuinely fun.

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To join the inner circle, your journey starts at one of our Lux Velvet Mixers or Dance Parties, held every other month at a new Ottawa venue. These themed events are open to everyone 19+ and are the perfect chance to dress up, let loose, and party with other singles and couples who share your values. They’re high-energy meet & greets where you can mingle with sex-positive, like-minded people in a no-pressure, welcoming environment. If you're interested in becoming a member, attending a Mixer is your chance to get vetted for our private parties.

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We take the community seriously. That means no creepy vibes, no pressure, and absolutely no tolerance for disrespect. Gone are the days of awkward conversations with someone three times your age or dealing with people who don’t take no for an answer. Everyone at our events understands the importance of consent and creating a welcoming space. And if a problem ever arises, our strict one-strike policy ensures it’s addressed immediately—your comfort and safety come first.

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Want access to the best private parties Ottawa has to offer? Become a Lux Velvet Member and unlock a world of curated, adult-themed experiences with the most vibrant, respectful crowd in the city. We only accept those who meet our Lux Velvet Standard—because unforgettable nights start with incredible people.