Club Joi

What exactly is Club Joi? In a nutshell? It's more like a big sexy Hollywood dance club, with Benefits. A club where you can look, feel, and be sexy. Comfortably. Among like minded people. It's a safe place to meet other couples and single ladies without commitment, but with unlimited possibilities. A place to make friends. Where fantasies come true and curiosities are satisfied.

The whole scene has been steadily growing for the past 20+ years. There are more people in the lifestyle now than there were 15 years ago when we started. Club Joi has gone from 1200 sq ft to 12,000 sq ft. This past Halloween was our biggest part ever with over 600 people! We are not the only ones growing. It's worldwide!

In 2025 it's hard to define with one word. "Swingers" brings up images of a hairy chested guy with a bowl of keys from 1975. It's not like that. There has been a push to update the name. "The Lifestyle" sounds nice but lacks description. Are you talking about a healthy Lifestyle? Country Lifestyle? You end up adding swing or swingers to your Google search or you'll never find a club.

A new term is being thrown around. Ethical Non Monogamy.  You may see the #ENM in social media. It's a mouthful. Hard to remember and if you mix the words up it means something totally different.

Orgy makes you think of Ancient Rome. Women have a lot more power today. Roman men commanded their women. Not like their slaves, they had them also, but they were more controlling. As late as the 1970s it was common to see a woman in the movies slapped by a man. Today if a guy hits a lady in the movies we cheer for his death. Attitudes have changed. The "Swingers Lifestyle" has evolved along with the times.

A New Experience. Gentlemen are with their partners, and have agreed to follow the rules. Giving their ladies the freedom to express themselves in a way rarely before experienced at any time in history. Ladies find it's a comfortable environment. A great place to dance, party, and meet new friends. Then, if you decide you want more, you can venture into our Playrooms and Fulfill your Fantasies.

The big difference between a regular club, and a swing club, is having the freedom to do what you really want to do. Find someone you are attracted to, and play with them.

Many swingers find they are so turned on over the weekend, they go at each other like rabbits the rest of the week.  Eagerly looking forward to the next weekend, like they used to when they were teenagers.

Often broaching the subject of entering the lifestyle is the biggest hurdle. Your spouse won't get mad at you for wanting to improve your sex life. In fact they will probably get as excited as you are, after all, most people have entertained the thought of swinging. What an exciting thought it is!

A surprising number of Wives are the first to bring up the lifestyle. Ladies find themselves in a position of control. They enjoy a sense of freedom they never thought possible. What loving Husband wouldn't want his Wife to experience that, and what Wife wouldn't appreciate a Husband who gives her that kind of freedom. Once a line communication is opened, a deeper trust ensues, and the couple becomes even closer.

The uninformed may think a swing party is a "free-for-all". It is not! Touching without asking may get you thrown out. No defiantly means NO at any swing lifestyle event. You should never feel like you are required to do anything you are not comfortable with at the club. The Swinging Lifestyle is all about doing what you want. Not about being forced into doing something you are not ready for. The Swing lifestyle should be a joyful experience for both partners.

Many couples start as voyeurs and gradually work their way toward the full swing experience. They realize attraction and lust are natural, and their partner is here to stay, as long as they can be honest and communicate their desires. Sexual attractions come and go while true love remains.

Club Joi is the perfect Swing club for beginners and more experienced swingers to meet. The club offers the ultimate setting for exploring Fantasies. Acting as both an erotic dance club, and as an on premise swing club. Couples new to the lifestyle will soon find erotic dance parties and swing clubs make regular vanilla clubs boring. Our huge dance floor, intimate club setting, and plush play areas have an alluring feel. At Club Joi the sky is the limit. Sexy Girls are excited, pulling each others clothes off, playing with each other. The gentlemen are always gracious and patient. The whole place has a beautiful, pleasant, erotic vibe.

Today's new breed of swingers are sexy, fit and fun. Young couples who frequent swing lifestyle clubs are more conscience of their shape and style. After all, we are all dating again and want to look attractive!

You never know who you will meet at a Lifestyle event. Some couples only watch. They may be new. Possibly just like you. Maybe they are still a little nervous but willing to talk about themselves. Others have been swinging at Club Joi for many years.

Energetic Erotic Exchange. Dancers like to dance. There is nowhere like Club Joi when the dance floor gets HOT!!! For some the dance floor keeps them coming back every week. Playtime is the dessert.

There are 4 steps. Watching. Being watched. Soft Play(kissing and touching). Ultimately Full Couples Swap. Everyone goes through these steps at their own pace. Some folks can take years. Others run the gamut the first night. There is no wrong or right way. It's about being comfortable. Take it at your own pace. Swing Clubs and the experience of swinging should be fun

Some folks prefer to stop at third base, the soft swingers. Then there are those who don't bother with dancing and flirting. The "What's with all the talking?" crowd.

No mater where you fit in. Even if you've never tried swinging, or you're not sure you're ready for that next big step, the erotic atmosphere of Club Joi will leave you excited and anxious for more.

Join Club Joi and experience Southern California's Biggest, Sexiest Swing Club.

Enjoy your life. Join Club Joi Today.